There is an entirely different experience of life — a completely fresh, new perspective, always available to us. This is what all of the spiritual masters, gurus, holy men and women point to. It’s why we meditate, take plant medicine and drugs, pray, chant mantras, read self help books, and so on. To get a taste of a state that is beyond the mind, before the mind — in a word, presence.
In a session with me, you will drop into the experience of pure presence, where there is only the visceral feeling of pure peace, pure joy, pure ease and clarity, absolute freedom. An actual physical feeling, that once you have touched it, you can return to it again and again. A place from where we can explore anything that’s on your mind, any questions you have, anything causing you suffering or stress, anything at all that you want resolution to — you’ll have it.
Resolution
By dropping deeper and deeper in the actual experience of infinite possibilities, energy, and creativity, you will return to your life rejuvenated, exhilarated, open, and free. Free from overthinking, stories, the noise of the mind. No longer bound by your traumas, fears, pain bodies in quite the same way.
“Life doesn’t give a shit how you feel about it. It just is exactly how it is no matter how you feel about it, if you like it or hate it — it is how it is, as it is. And blessedly your experience of life doesn’t have to be dictated by your circumstances once you know better.” – Candie
YOU ARE THAT WHICH YOU SEEK (truly)
Something in you knows there’s got to be more. A quiet yearning for a better experience of your life, something more real, more conscious. Simply, answers to this fucked up-ness of life.
“Life wants to spoon feed you, you just have to open your fucking mouth.” – Candie
Like a fish in water can’t know it’s in water until it experiences being outside of the water, we don’t know that the reality we have been living isn’t at all what it appears to be.
We are born innocent and fully conscious until we experience the gift of the apparent ego.
The ego’s job is to give us the experience of separation from all that is, by creating an identity and by use of comparison (“I am Candie,” “I am nice/smart/horrible” “He is immature/stupid/better than me” and on and on). The degree to which we identify with this egoic separation is the degree to which we will also experience suffering (sadness, confusion, anger, discontent, etc).
Once we’ve truly had enough of being a victim of life, our out of control yo-yo emotions, our stories (that we tell ourselves & others), we start to look in another direction for a new experience (this can be healthy — spiritual quest, retreats, books, etc. or otherwise — suicide, addiction, etc.).
Here’s the thing. If you couldn’t tell tell any stories about yourself (your past, your “I am’s” — “I am Susan, He did that to me, I had a horrific childhood, etc,” your accomplishments, etc.)what/who would be left?
Who would you be before any words? Before any words at all, (descriptions, labels, beliefs, thoughts, etc.) what is there?
There would only be a feeling — not a concept — but an actual visceral feeling.
Pure presence
That is, the actual experience where none of those stories about yourself, your life, etc. even exist.
I’ll take you directly into that feeling, no process required.
Drop into the place where there is no noise — no mind chatter — and bask in that.
A place where there is only pure freedom, joy, infinite possibilities, expansiveness — pure relief.
And it’s always there
You will leave with a deep knowing that that feeling is always accessible to you. As it is your truest nature, at your core being, regardless of your beliefs or external circumstances. No fixing, healing, classes, workshops, books, or change required (sometimes helpful but never required).
Right here, right now
No more need to live from “should, could, would” — no more need to figure anything out.
No more regrets
Open, peaceful, excited to be alive, with far more clarity of thought.
Experience a totally, utterly new and different perspective of your entire existence every single session.
Bring yourself back into alignment with life, back into flow.
I sometimes forget
that I was created for Joy.
My mind is too busy.
My Heart is too heavy
for me to remember
that I have been
called to dance
the Sacred dance of life.
I was created to smile
To Love
To be lifted up
And to lift others up.
O’ Sacred One
Untangle my feet
from all that trap
Free my soul.
That we might
Dance
and that our dancing
might be infectious
……Rumi💞
Sessions by zoom/whataspp and in person and have no fixed cost, you determine the value.
I am here. Ready to meet you as you are where you are.
smilelove@me.com ❤️
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Candie is a dynamic character full of joy, light and love. She has a vivaciousness for life and a laugh that is infectious. She had her first noticeable spiritual opening at 16 years old and thus began more than 30 years of journeying, searching, seeking, until the summer of 2025 when she experienced a major shift in consciousness, where nothing particular changed but everything was different, and she realized that she could, very quickly, connect with and take people to the very real visceral experience of presence. She is a clear and direct voice to the wisdom that we all have access to but maybe don’t yet have the clarity of mind to connect with directly. She is deeply honored, humbled and overjoyed to witness the liberation of the sweet souls who sit with her.
Candie is living her dream in the beautiful beach town of San Pancho, Mexico with many many dogs, one cat, a mini-pig (who walks off leash with the dogs to and on the beach) and one her three incredible kids (her adult children are living out their dreams in Canada).
What others say
“If you’re ready to actually change your life, to cut through your own BS and live to your maximum potential, Candie is your person. It’s as simple as that, and the impact can be instant—it has been for me. If you’re not ready, that’s fine, that’s natural. But as much honesty and directness and insight as you’re ready to hear, said with love and clarity, she’s your person. An extraordinary gift to the world.” – Alex
“Even in casual conversation, Candie’s compassion, patience, and non-judgmental nature are immediately clear. What makes her truly special is her genuine care for all living things and her zest for life. Candie has a remarkable ability to help people and their pets live in better harmony. This begins with empowering the human.” – Saba
“Candie has an extraordinary ability to meet you exactly where you are, holding steady and non-judgmental space as you work through life’s challenges. She reflects your inner truth back to you with clarity and compassion, helping you see your own path forward. Her presence is a gift-grounding and filled with genuine love!” – Eileen
Out beyond ideas of wrong doing
and right doing there is a field.
I’ll meet you there.
When the soul lies down in that grass
the world is too full to talk about.
.…..Rumi 💞